We are the way we are, we should not apologize for it. As long as we are true to ourselves and have strong values we should stand proud. Everyday we have the option to shape ourselves into a better version; at the same time get to know ourselves a little bit better. We constantly morph into what we will be tomorrow, and it is based on what we do (or don't do) today. The more we get to know ourselves, the more we can identify what we really want, what we really need, what makes us really happy.
On that note, here is a french artist who expresses so nicely what she wants:-)
For those who are not fortunate enough to know the beautiful french language; here it is wth English subtitles;-)